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6/12 Interactive Board: Unintentional Abuse

11/7 Interactive Board: Is This Abusive?

12/29 Interactive Board: There Goes the Wife...

11/4 Interactive Board: A New Me!

10/8 Interactive Board: Seeming Impossibility

9/8 Interactive Board: My Ex MisTreats Our Son

5/1 Interactive Board: I feel Dead - Towards Him

4/26 Interactive Board: Why is This So Hard?

4/19 Interactive Board: I Lost My Love...

4/7 Interactive Board: Too Guilty!

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Contents

Welcome to Dr Irene's Verbal Abuse (Site)!

bulletLove Addict: Triangles
bulletBoard Donation Page
bulletVerbal Abuse
bulletAbuse Signs
bullet Abuse & Pop Culture
bulletControlling Behaviors
bulletThe Cycle of Abuse
bulletQuick Relationship Profile
bulletWhat's Healthy Interaction Look Like?
bulletGuidelines: Who is The Abuser, Who is the Victim?
bulletAbuser and Victim
bulletFood for Thought
bulletPersonal Responsibility
bulletDr. Irene on Family Violence and Gender Issues
bulletComments to Family Violence
bulletMy Boundaries?
bulletWhat is Family of Origin Stuff?
bulletRecognition of Abuse in Therapy
bulletComments to Recognizing Abuse in Therapy
bulletChoosing The 4 Horsemen - Or Not!
bulletTell Me More About Control
bullet Doc Won't Put Up With Abuse!
bulletMessage Yak  Boards
bulletComments for How to get Kicked Off Site
bulletAn Analysis of The Abuser's Language
bulletComments to Language Analysis
bulletTex's List For Abusive Gals
bulletSociopathy and Anger
bulletWhat do you do with your anger?
bulletResults from Form 1 of Page what_anger.php
bulletBorderline Personality & Anger
bullet Open Letter to Gays and Lesbians
bulletComments for Gays/Lesbians Seeking Abuse Info
bulletEgo Vs. Self
bulletComments for Ego Vs. Self
bulletStop Child Abuse
bulletWhose Side are You On Anyway?
bulletHow to Get Help
bulletLinks & Stuff 1
bulletThe Judge's Little Story
bulletComments to Judge's Little Story
bulletFighting Rules
bullet Kids (Rules & Consequences)
bulletComments for Kids & Consequences
bullet Watch For Red Flags!
bulletComments for Watch
bullet Your Anger
bulletBibliography: Female Aggression
bulletThe Victim Pages
bulletThe Verbally Abused Partner
bulletVictim's Recovery Stages
bullet Understanding the Victims of Spousal Abuse
bulletThe Victim's Anger
bullet I Allowed Abuse? No Way!
bulletMy Covert Abuse Experience
bulletMore Covert Abuse
bulletMore Covert Abuse
bulletSelf-Control is Not Only for the Abuser
bulletRules In My House
bulletBlaming The Victim vs The Defensive Victim: Advanced Recovery
bulletComments for Blaming vs Defensive Victim
bulletNew Relationship: Is (S)He's A Controller?
bulletComments for New Relationship
bulletHow To Deal With An Abuser W/O Getting Defensive
bulletHow To Deal With An Abuser page 1
bulletComments To Deal With An Abuser Page 2
bulletDealing With Your Abuser: When Words Won't Work
bulletComments to When Words Won't Work
bulletWhy Do Victims Get Stuck In Anger?
bulletComments to Stuck In Anger
bulletRecovery Map: Life During and After Abuse
bulletComments to Recovery Map
bullet How Did I Become Abusive - by Victim
bulletComments for Become Abusive
bulletAm I Enabling?
bulletVictimThink
bulletComments VictimThink
bulletVerbal Abuse and The Church
bulletComments for Verbal Abuse and the Church
bulletDelaney: a Case History
bulletTips: Take Your Power!
bulletTips: Leaving Your Abuser
bulletBoard: How To Leave Your Abuser
bulletComments: How I Left My Abuser
bulletSafety Plan
bulletAnne's Red Flag Victim & Abuser Behaviors
bulletAbused Guy Page
bulletFor Battered Guys
bulletMale Victims Of Domestic Violence
bulletDivorce: Protecting The Children
bullet Divorcing the Kid(s)
bulletComments for Divorcing Kid(s)
bulletHelp! I Still Love My Abuser!
bullet Article Research
bulletComments for Article Research
bulletBorderline (BPD) Abuse
bulletTraumas As Social Interactions
bulletComments for Traumas
bullet Healing From Shame/Traumatic Events
bulletWhat Is Abuse?
bulletPsychology of Torture
bulletHow to Cope With Your Abuser
bulletHow to Cope With Abuse in the Workplace
bulletMy Heart is Swiss Cheese
bulletAnatomy of Abuse
bulletComments for Anatomy of Abuse
bulletHow To Cope With Abuse
bulletAbusive Behavior Survey Results
bulletComments forAbusive Behavior Survey
bulletThe Abuser Pages
bulletThe Verbally Abusive Partner
bulletThe Angry Person's Codependence
bulletThe Easy Stuff
bulletTaking Control
bulletCalling All Controllers
bulletComments for Calling All Controllers
bulletConfessions of a Professional Abuser
bulletComments for Confessions
bulletTurning Point: Giving Up Control
bulletReply to Turning Point
bulletA Message To All Abusers
bulletThe Abuser is the Victim?
bulletTips to Give Up Angry Control
bulletHuh? Your Advice Confuses Me...
bulletThe Controlling Caregiver
bulletComments to The Controlling Caregiver
bulletA Recovering Abuser Speaks
bulletComments for A Recovering Abuser Speaks
bulletDo I Have To Become Buddah?
bulletComments for Buddha 1
bulletComments for Buddha2
bulletComments to Buddha 3
bulletComments for Buddha 4
bullet Advanced Abuser Recovery: Bumps along The Way
bulletComments forBumps along The Way
bullet 1-The Narcissist's Partner
bulletDr. Varkin's Narcissism Bibliography
bulletComments for Mate of Narcissist
bullet 2-Narcissism, Sex & Fidelity
bulletComments for Narcissism, Sex, Fidelity
bullet 3-The Extramarital Narcissist
bulletComments for Extramaritalf Narcissist
bullet 4 - Mourning The Narcissist
bulletComments for Mourning The Narcissist
bullet 5 - Narcissists, Love & Healing
bulletComments for Narcissists, Love & Healing
bullet 6 - Narcissists & Women
bulletComments for Narcissists & Women
bullet 7 - Surviving the Narcissist
bulletComments for Surviving the Narcissist
bullet 8 - Abandoning the Narcissist
bulletComments for Abandoning the Narcissist
bullet 9 - Narcissist, the Abuser
bulletComments for Narcissist, the Abuser
bullet 10 - Living with a Narcissist
bulletComments for Living with a Narcissist
bullet 11-The Narcissist & His Family
bullet 12- Narcissists & Violence
bullet 13 - Should I Wait?
bullet 14 - Divorcing the Narcissist
bullet Male Vs. Female Narcissists
bullet The Female Narcissist
bulletComments for Female Narcissist
bullet16-Narcissist At Work
bulletBibliography 2
bulletLove A Narcissistic Woman?
bulletDiagnostic criteria for Antisocial Personality
bulletDiagnostic Criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder
bulletWhy  Does A Woman Do An Abuser's Page?
bulletQuick Guide to the Abuser's Treatment
bulletAnger & Cycle Theory (Men & The Anger Within)
bulletComments Anger Cycle Theory
bulletTex's List For Abusive Guys
bulletI'll Never Be Happy
bulletHow To Be Unhappy
bulletHow-To-Be-Angry Affirmations
bulletTraumas as Social Interactions
bulletPsychology of Torture
bulletPsychology of  Serial Killers
bulletHow to Spot an Abuser on Your First Date
bulletThe Cyber Narcissist
bulletNarcissism, Substance Abuse & Reckless Behaviors
bulletCodependent Love
bulletCodependency Information
bulletSymptoms of Codependence
bulletHot and Cold Love Addicts
bulletObsessed Love Addicts
bulletIs it Love?
bulletRecovery From Love Addiction
bulletWhy Do I Keep Falling For Creeps
bulletKristen's Love Addiction to Angry Guy
bulletKristen's Update
bulletI am OK
bullet1: A Guy's Love Addiction
bullet2: Reader Comments
bullet3:Therapist's Comments
bullet4 Update
bullet5 J's Reply
bullet6: Getting Better
bullet7 J's Update, Fall 1999
bullet8 J's May 31, 2000 Update
bulletComments for J
bullet9 J's 2001 Update
bulletComments for J 2001 Update
bullet  10. J's Last Chapter
bulletComments for J's Last Chapter
bullet Starting Again
bullet Healing From Shame/Traumatic Events
bulletAnger & Cycle Theory (Men & The Anger Within)
bulletOwning Your Worth
bulletLove Vs. Infatuation
bulletCodependency: A Family Perspective
bulletMindset of the Codependent
bulletTrusting Thy Self
bulletStuff To Read
bulletOwning Your Stuff
bulletSit With Feelings
bullet Ask The Doc
bulletUntitled 1
bulletThe Doc Answers 1
bulletThe Doc Answers 2
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bulletThe Doc Answers 37
bulletThe Doc Answers 38
bulletThe Doc Answers 39
bulletAdvice & Stories
bulletHow To Get Doc's Advice
bulletInteractive Board Submission
bulletAnd MORE Interactive Abuse Email # 61-90
bulletInteractive: Codependent Partners
bulletComments fo rCodependent Partners
bulletInteractive: He's Changing
bulletComments for He's Changing
bulletInteractive: D/s
bulletComments for D/s Lifestyle
bulletInteractive: Purrrfect Husband
bulletComments for Purrrfect Husband
bulletInteractive: What if He Could Change?
bulletComments for What If He Could Change?
bulletInteractive: Quandry Revisited
bulletComments, Quandry Revisited
bulletQuandary: Who Is The Victim / Abuser
bulletComments to Quandary
bulletInteractive: What's Going On?
bulletComments for Going On
bulletInteractive: Unintentional Abuse
bulletComments for Unintentional Abuse
bulletGood Advice from a Young Woman
bulletIs This Abusive?
bulletComments for
bulletInteractive: There Goes The Bride
bulletComments for There Goes the Wife
bulletInteractive: New Me
bulletComments for New Me
bulletMyStory: Listen to Their Stories
bulletInteractive: Seeming Impossibility
bulletComments for Seemingly Impossible
bulletInteractive: Ex Mistreats Son
bulletComments for Ex Mistreats Our Son
bulletMy Story: Just Left; Am OK
bulletMy Story: PsychoShrink Hubby
bulletI Can See Clearly Now
bulletInteractive: I feel Dead Towards Him
bulletComments for Feel Dead
bulletInteracting: Why is this so Hard?
bulletComments for So Hard
bulletI Lost My Love
bulletComments for Lost Love
bulletInteractive: Too Guilty to Leave
bulletComments for Too Guilty
bulletInteractive: Eeek! I'm Angry!
bulletComments for Eeek! I'm Angry!
bulletInteractive: How Can I Be Sure?
bulletComments for Be Sure
bulletMy Story: A Poem for Him
bulletInteractive: Killing Her with Kindness
bulletComments for Killing Her with Kindness
bulletHe Wants My Forgiveness
bulletComments for My Forgiveness
bulletShe Broke My Heart
bulletComments for She Broke My Heart
bulletSheer Frustration-Interactive
bulletComments for Sheer Frustration
bulletHeartbroken - Interactive Board
bulletComments for HeartBroken
bulletMy Story: Busting Anger
bulletComments for Busting Anger
bulletHow to Cope?
bulletComments for How to Cope?
bulletMy Short Fuse
bulletComments for My Short Fuse
bulletI Got It
bulletComments for I Got It
bulletWhat Am I Missing?
bulletComments for What Am I Missing?
bulletEnding My Abusiveness
bulletComments for Ending Abusiveness
bulletI Want a Loving Home
bulletComments for Loving Home
bulletRelationships Ugh! Round 2
bulletComments for Relationships Ugh 2
bulletInteractive: Relationships! Ugh!
bulletComments for Relationships! Ugh!
bulletInteractive: Mommy Dearest
bulletComments for Mommy Dearest
bulletSecond Time Around, But...
bulletComments for 2nd Time Around
bulletLook Up Narcissus
bulletComments for Look Up Narcissus
bulletUpdate to Brawny Guy's Tale
bullet Update: 3 Yrs Later
bulletComments for 3 Yrs Later
bulletHer Personality Irregularities
bulletComments for Her Irregularities
bullet Back to Normal
bullet Brawny Guy's Tale:Abuser,Abusee
bulletComments for Brawny Guy
bullet Trying Not To Feel Hopeless
bulletComments for Trying Not To Feel Hopeless
bullet Sheer Desperation
bulletComments for Sheer Desperation
bullet End My 24-Yr Marriage?
bulletComments for End 24-Yr Marriage
bullet End My 24-Yr Marriage?
bulletComments for End 24-Yr Marriage
bullet Woman's Jealous Obsession
bulletComments for Jealous Obsession
bullet Push & Pull Me
bulletComments for Push & Pull
bullet The Mess that Did Me Good!
bulletComments for Good Mess
bullet Love is Not Arrogant
bulletComments for Arrogant
bulletEmotionally Unavailable
bulletComments for Emotionally Unavailable
bulletUpdate to Physical Vs. Verbal Abuse
bullet Imbalance of Anger
bulletComments for Imbalance of Anger
bullet Brian's Story: Gay Relationship
bulletComments for Brian's Story
bullet A Guy's Abusive Boyfriend
bulletComments for Guy's Boyfriend
bullet My Abusive Husband
bulletComments for My Husband
bullet M Got It!
bulletComments for M
bulletWhy Am I So Inconsiderate?
bulletComments for Inconsiderate
bulletMore Interactive Abuse Email (#31-60)
bullet After Divorce: Am I On Track?
bulletComments for Am I On Track
bullet Choosing A Therapist & Emotions
bulletComments for Choosing a Therapist & Emotions
bullet An Angry Person's Pain
bulletComments for Angry Person's Pain
bullet B's Board:Working The Marriage
bulletComments for B's Board
bullet The Angry People In My Life
bulletComments forAngry People
bullet I've Been Reading Your Site
bulletComments fo Reading Site
bullet Sold Out for Clean Cat Boxes
bullet The Catbox
bulletComments for Cat Box Cleaner
bulletLynn's Letter to Trubble & the Doc
bulletEspecially For Lynn
bulletComments for Catbox 2
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bulletTypes of Battery
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bulletComments for Catbox 30
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bulletTrubbling Times in The CatBox
bulletOfficial US Sanity Certificate
bulletComments for Catbox 32
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bulletBeloved Koi Fishies
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bulletLinks & Stuff 4
bulletComments for Catbox 48
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bulletComments for Catbox 52
bulletComments for Catbox 53
bulletChilling Common-Law Husband
bulletComments for Chilling Common-Law Husband
bulletThe High Road To Recovery
bulletComments for Rhoda
bulletShe Needs A Reality Check
bulletComments for Reality Check
bulletResponding To I Abused The Man I Love
bulletComments to Response To I Abused
bulletBut, What About My Son?
bulletComments for But, What About My Son?
bulletWhich One is the Abuser?
bulletComments for Which One is the Abuser
bulletShould I Stand Up to My Abuser
bulletComments to Should I Stand Up To My Abuser?
bulletShe Betrayed My Heart
bulletComments to She Breaks My Heart
bulletLook What Happens When You Let Go...
bulletComments for Look What Happens
bulletJealous Wife
bulletComments for Jealous Wife
bulletFeeling Sooo Guilty
bulletComments for Feeling Sooo Guilty
bulletI Am Victim, Abuser, Codependent...
bulletComments to I am Victim, Abuser, Codependent...
bulletEnd 4 Generations of Abuse
bulletComments to End 4 Generations of Abuse
bulletSo Hard To Give Him Space
bulletComments to So Hard To Give Him Space
bulletFemale With Control Issues
bulletComments for Controlling Female
bulletMy Difficult Wife
bulletComments for My Difficult Wife
bulletAbusive Guy Wants Help
bulletComments for Abused Guy Wants Help
bulletRhoda's Update: Advanced Victim Recovery - Codependence
bulletComments for Rhoda
bulletIs He An Abuser?
bulletComments for Is He An Abuser?
bulletA Message From Dan
bulletComments for Dan
bulletLetting Go is Tough
bulletComments for Letting Go Is Tough
bulletSelf-Proclaimed Sociopath: I Don't Get It...
bulletComments for Self
bulletSelf Proclaimed Answers Some Questions
bulletAm I an Abusive, Controlling Husband?
bulletComments for Am I an Abusive Husband?
bulletComments for Am I an Abusive Husband2?
bulletInteractive Abuse EMail (#1-30)
bulletMy Blackbelt Protects Me
bulletComments to Blackbelt
bulletCan She Get Over My Abuse?
bulletComments for Can She Get Over My Abuse?
bulletSuccess: I'm Proud of My Husband
bulletComments for Success: Proud of Husband
bulletHelp! He'll Kill Me!
bulletComments for Help!
bulletNever Neat Enough
bulletComments for Never Neat Enough
bulletI' Soooo Tired...
bulletComments for I'm Soooo Tired
bulletPhysical Vs. Verbal Abuse
bulletComments to Physical Vs
bulletThe Perfect Man
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bulletVictim Partner Turns Abusive
bulletComments for Victim Turned Abuser
bulletDad's Influence Is Corrupting Our Son
bulletComments for Corrupting Our Son
bulletThe Judge Updates Us
bulletComments to Judge's Update
bulletJust Divorced And I Can't Really Leave
bulletComments for Can't Really Leave
bulletWay Beyond Codependency
bulletComments for Way Beyond Codependency
bulletGetting In Touch With Victim Anger
bulletComments for Victim's Anger
bulletI've Had Enough Too!
bulletComments for Had Enuf Too
bulletIf Only The House Was Clean
bulletComments To If Only
bulletShe Dumped Me For Him
bulletComments for She Dumped Me For Him
bulletSex Problems
bulletComments to Sex Problems
bulletOutside Influence: His Mom
bulletComments for Outside Influence: His Mom
bulletHow We Both Messed Up
bulletComments for We Both Messed Up
bulletA Violent Victim?
bulletComments for Violent Victim
bulletDo I Want to Leave a 23 Yr Marriage?
bulletComments for 23-Yr Marriage
bulletWill I Ever Be Free?
bulletComments to Be Free
bulletDivorce and the Children
bulletComments for Divorce & The Children
bulletThe Restraining Order Worked
bulletComments for Monica
bulletSharp Questions Deserve Answers
bulletComments to Sharp Questions
bulletHelp! My Kids Turned Against Me!
bulletReplies to My Kids Turned Against Me
bulletChild Abuse:Truth is Stranger Than Fiction
bulletReplies To Child Abuse
bulletNope, This Is About YOU!
bulletReply to R
bulletGot Legal Advice for Abused Man & His Kids?
bulletComments To Abused Dad
bulletLicking The Abuse Wounds (Email #91-120)
bulletReva's Update
bulletUpdate: An Angry Person's Pain
bulletGood News Followup
bulletRecovery from Passive Aggressive Stuff
bulletJune 2000 Had Enough Update
bulletJune 2000 Update to How Much Time Should I Give Him
bulletJune 2000 Update to Where Is My Anger
bulletAm I Wrong In Wanting Separation?
bulletHe's An Abusive Cross-Dresser
bulletStress or Abuse?
bulletPerfectly Awful Abusive Mom & Wife
bulletI am Confused
bulletUpdate to Married To a Sociopath: I'm Working On Me!
bulletMonica's March 1 Update
bulletPrescription Drug Addicted Abusive Wife
bulletWhy Won't She Leave Her Abuser?
bulletAbuse Survivor
bulletWit's End
bulletConfusion: Who is Abusive?
bulletReader Comment to (Not)
bulletNo More Excuses
bulletFollow-Up to (Not) Putting My Life Back...
bulletViv's Update
bulletHappy Ending For Angry Hubby
bulletI Know What I Need To Do
bulletI Fell in Love With Another Man
bulletMen and Sex Relieve My Pain
bulletWife-Girlfriend-Wife-Girlfriend???
bulletAn Exercise for Couples in Recovery
bulletYikes! Is There No End To The Abuse? (Email #61-90)
bullet(NOT) Putting My Life Back
bulletMy Husband's BPD Diagnoses
bulletAbout My Abusive Lady-Partner
bulletMixed Feelings; Tough Choices
bulletUpdate to If It Hurts
bulletBlame and Excuses
bulletUpdate to "Where Is My Anger?"
bulletBarbara's Update
bulletHas He Really Changed?
bulletA Couched Potato Husband
bulletTeenage Victim
bulletBreaking Point, Part 2
bulletThe Breaking Point
bulletPassive-Aggressive & Codependent
bulletTough Macho Guy is the Victim
bulletThank You Thank You
bulletUpdate to I've Had Enough
bulletMy First Mistake
bulletArrested Development
bulletOnLine Romance Goes Sour
bulletThanks Mom!
bulletGuy Victim's Comments to Donna
bulletSo, Its Not All Me...
bulletCourage to Leave
bulletIts a Doozy
bulletSometimes it is Very Good
bulletWhat About The Adult Kids?
bulletA Jaded Woman
bulletWhere Do You Draw The Abuse Line
bulletYou Cannot Dance Alone
bulletVerbal Abuse (Email  #1-30)
bulletWhere Is My Anger
bulletWhy We Won't Leave
bulletAm I Crazy?
bulletAbuse? Alcoholism? Mental Illness?
bulletElizabeth's Update
bulletSupport For The Abuser
bulletI feel guilty for getting a restraining order
bulletMonica's Reply
bulletHusband Abuse Is No Different Than Wife Abuse
bulletHow much Time Should I Give Him?
bulletHis Name Calling And Anger
bulletA Mom Gives Herself Good Advice
bulletNo Win Situation
bulletMy Punitive Husband
bulletDon't Write Back-He Will Know...
bulletNot Always Abuse
bulletAm I Abusive?
bulletMy Wife Ran Off...
bulletBarbara, Trust Thyself!
bulletCovert Abuse Survivor
bulletThe Bad Guy is a She
bulletLove Isn't Everything
bulletBoy Friend Disaster
bulletI've Had Enough
bulletVerbal Abuse?
bulletIs There Help...
bulletHe Seems More Dangerous Now
bulletAbused Guy Has NO Empathy For Abusers
bulletSetting Boundaries
bulletAbusive, Sex-Addicted Husband
bulletVerbal Abuse (Email  #1-30)
bulletEffects on the Child
bulletHow Do I Get Rid of Bitterness?
bulletMy Boyfriend's Anger
bulletKeeper of The Truth
bulletIs He Abusive?
bulletVat Duz Dukter Irene No?
bulletDragging Her Down
bulletDon't You Want a Partner?
bulletPhysical Threats
bulletI'm Abusive...Help!
bulletIf She Loves me, She Won't Press Charges
bulletHusband Abuse
bulletBeating Horses is  OK?
bulletGetting Physical?
bulletJust Waking Up
bulletLong Distance Lover
bulletDump Him!
bulletDepression & Abuse
bulletHopeless Victim?
bulletComments for Hopeless Victim
bulletAbuse & Addiction
bulletFalling Apart
bulletHe Needs Space
bulletName Calling
bulletAbusive Newlywed
bulletAbuser Wants Help
bulletAbusive Mom?
bulletAbusive Mom
bulletAbuse, Panic, Fear
bulletCodependence, Love & Sex Addiction Email Archives
bulletCodependency, Human Nature & Abuse
bulletGuilt & My Abusive, Addicted Ex-Husband
bulletHe's Not Driving You Crazy, You Are!
bulletGo Directly To ALANON
bulletWhat About You?
bulletControl Yourself, Not Your Wife!
bulletWhat Did You Expect?
bulletHelp Me Leave
bulletIn Recovery & Getting It Together
bulletHelping My Abused Sister
bulletMy Husband is Addicted to Sex & Anger
bulletCodependence
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bulletWhat Can We Do?
bulletReader Comments 2 (#31-60)
bullet Inspirational Kudos
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bullet The Same Site?
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bullet Thanx
bulletVictim Anger: Missing The Point
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bulletThe Big Guy Helps Those Who Help Themselves
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bulletBroken Engagement
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bulletBig, Burly Guy Victim
bulletYet More Thanks
bulletHow I Handle My Abusive Wife
bulletA Simple Thank You
bulletA Reader Complains $%#
bullet"Hissssss" to You Too!
bulletReligion, Christianity & Religious Differences
bulletThank You
bulletWords of Appreciation
bulletA Finally Happy Mom
bulletOn the Courts...
bulletOpen Letter To Abused Dads
bulletAbusive Graphics
bulletAnger is Normal
bulletDr, Did You Do Your BPD Homework?
bulletThank You For Caring For Us
bulletWho Says The Abuser Is More Stable
bulletWhat's A Judge To Do?
bulletThere Really Are "Bad" People
bulletI'm Not Crazy!
bulletComments to Dr. Irene on Email Advice
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bulletEven More Thanks
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bulletAbuse & the Legal System
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bulletMy Story (# 31-60)
bulletMy Story: Praying for a Miracle
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bulletPoem Thoughts & Doc's Comments
bullet Narcissist Wants Divorce
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bullet Abusive Lady Asks for Support
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bullet Abused Guy No More!
bullet He Loved Me When I Wasn't His
bulletComments for Wasn't His
bullet Angry Victim Recovers
bulletComments for Angry Victim
bullet Narcissists in My Life
bulletComments fo rNarcissists in My Life
bullet Not Crazy: Beautiful!
bulletComments for Crazy-Beautiful
bullet My Story: 27 Years
bulletComments for 27 Years
bullet Dealing With Mom
bullet Spouting: On The Female Narcissist
bulletComments for Narcissistic Woman
bullet I AM Going To Stop!
bullet Life After Her
bulletGuy's Breaking Point
bulletComments for Guy's Breaking Point
bulletLose Your Lover (The Narcissist)
bullet Theressa's Story
bulletComments for Theressa's Story
bullet Second Marriage
bulletComments for Second Marriage
bullet Death of the Dream
bulletComments for Death of a Dream
bullet Waathered the Storm
bulletComments for Weathered The Storm
bullet My Story: Choices, My Journey
bulletComments for My Choices
bullet Choices: Reclaiming My Life
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bullet 5 Kids and and OP
bulletComments for 5 Kids
bullet I Married 4 Sociopaths
bulletComments for 4 Sociopaths
bullet Abuser Appreciates Advice
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bullet Pain & Confusion
bulletComments for Guy's Pain
bullet Journey Out of Abuse
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bullet Remarried Ex and Oh Boy...
bulletComments for Remarried Ex
bullet An Abuse Survivor's Story
bulletComments for Survivor Story
bullet Lessons My Abusive Husband Taught Me
bulletComments for Husband's Lessons
bullet No Power - & I'm Becoming Abusive
bulletComments for No Power
bullet No Way To Live A Life
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bulletTough Love Advice
bulletComments for Tough Love
bullet Success Story: C&K
bulletComments for C & K
bulletEmpowered One Year
bulletRemember Geri and Her Recovery Music?
bulletComments for Geri
bulletMy Advice: What's Working For Me
bulletAnother Relational Success Story
bulletComments for Another Relational Success Story
bulletLeaving Mr. Selfish
bulletLeaving Is No Panacea
bulletPosts for Leaving Is No Panacea
bulletMy Story (# 1-30)
bulletVictim Too Angry To Love
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bulletHis Addiction to Sex, Drugs & Battery
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