Last August, almost a year ago, the "original" CatBox ceased and a new more sophisticated forum was implemented: Trubble's CatBox. The original CatBox archives remain displayed in the left banner since so many of my nights were sleepless, spent editing and interacting with "the regulars." We had a few crises and a few breakthroughs... It was an adventure - usually upbeat and silly, often dead serious - with many rewards. For those of you with the patience to sift through 52 pages spanning almost a full year, you'll come away with an insider's view of internet group therapy.

I no longer have the inclination /emotional energy to participate with such intensity in the new CatBox, nor does the new format lend itself to same. These archives hold a special place in my heart and I thank the wonderful individuals, the "victims" and "abusers" so to speak, who participated and allowed you and me to glimpse into their hearts and souls. Thank you for the privilege and thank you for allowing me to be there...

With love, Dr. Irene

Just below you'll find links to all the pages. Below that, and a good place to start, is a short history of the original CatBox, written by one of it's participants.

Read the posts here: (Higher numbers are more recent)

CatBox History: How It All Started...

December 20, 2000

The Catbox or as one writer posted, "Where we dump the poop," started with this interactive email by Lynn.

Lynn said: "I started writing in a notebook and after 2 days of rambling thoughts, feelings, etc. I wrote two columns: What I'm getting/not getting out of this relationship - and the only thing I came up with is that he cleans the litter boxes twice a week."

Since the original interactive email, her Honey Dan has joined in on the dialogue. Those two and other regular posters in similar situations have offered their input and support, as well as voiced their own concerns, thoughts, and reflections. Poster's spouses / significant others are welcome and invited to join in. Besides being a "dumping" spot, it's a place of support and learning for those sincerely interested in personal growth.

And when the going gets tough, the tough - dig in our heels and hold our breath till our fur turns blue!

See you in the CatBox! Love, purrs and kisses, Trubble (with a little help from his FakeMommy Asha.)

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