|Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set
of glands calling to another.
Love is a friendship
that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are
excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered
questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not
examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of
imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your
beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles do not
separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I
can't risk losing you!"
Love says, "Be patient. Do not panic. Plan your future
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are
honest, you can admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure
it will end - in intimacy.
Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends
before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder
if he/she is cheating. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened.
Your beloved feels that also and that makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret
later, but love never will.
Love is an upper. It makes you look up. It makes you think
It makes you a better person.