 | My good feelings about who I am stem from
being liked by you. |
| My good feelings about who I am stem from
receiving approval from you. |
| Your struggles affect my serenity |
| My mental attention focuses on solving your
problems or relieving your pain. |
| My mental attention is focused on pleasing
you. |
| My mental attention is focused on
manipulating you to "do it my way." |
| My self-esteem is bolstered by solving your
problems. |
| My self-esteem is bolstered by relieving your
pain. |
| My own hobbies and interests are put aside. |
| My time is spent sharing your interests and
hobbies. |
| Your clothing and personal appearance is
dictated by my desires as I feel you are a reflection of me. |
| I am not aware of how I feel; I am aware of
how you feel. I am not aware of what I want; I ask what you want. If I am not aware, I
assume. |
| The dreams I have for my future are linked to
you. |
| My fear of rejection determines what I say or
do. |
| I use giving as a way of feeling safe in our
relationship. |
| My social circle diminishes as I involve
myself with you. |
| The quality of my life is in relation to the
quality of yours. |
