Another step closer to being divorced
Posted 17 July 2012 - 08:40 PM
Then he is at the house when I get home that day to harrass me. I will be glad when I can lock my door and not worry about him coming in the house whenever he feels like it. I hate this feeling.
So out of the blue H decides to take S11 to a special night out. I just hope son comes home tonight. This special night out would give H at least a 7 hour jump. I really don't believe that he would take son, but it is that little doubt that is always with me. I have seen him do and say so many things lately that I never would have imagined, so I really just don't know what he would do.
Thanks for listening.
Posted 17 July 2012 - 08:53 PM
And yes, I think it's natural to worry a bit about what your stbx might do. But I think it would be very unlikely he would kidnap your son -- the risks for him of getting caught plus the amount he would stand to lose is just too great. So yes, it makes sense to always keep alert... but try to stay calm and reassure yourself that the percentages are in your favor that nothing like that would ever happen.
I can't wait for you to be done with this!!! You really have been put through the wringer. (((((Coconut))))
Posted 18 July 2012 - 08:46 AM
I still occasionally post a snark on FB. I just can't help it. I almost always delete them within a few hours, though, thinking "Why did I do that. DOH!" LOL
If you can stand it, block him from your FB account. Just don't look. My ex has his FB locked down tight so I can't see anything, but for the first year I just outright blocked him.
Hang in there. It's a long process, but worth the freedom and peace of mind in the end!
Posted 18 July 2012 - 10:00 AM
Posted 19 July 2012 - 10:45 PM
What goes around comes around. Indeed. And when it finally does come around for him, may it leave tread marks! Figuratively speaking.
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