Stbx is still putting D11 in the middle. He told her that I said I didn't love him anymore. It made him think of the song, "now you're just somebody that I used to know." Now D11 hates that song when it's played on the radio. He also told her that I don't think he works hard enough...whatever, I never even said that. Then he got teary eyed which then made her cry.
When I confronted him about this he was already trying to explain himself because she told him that she told me what we talked about. He denies saying what D11 told me and was backsliding about the song.
Stbx is receptive to email and I wanted to send him some info on keeping children out of the middle. Does anyone know of some good articles I can send him? I try googling info on this but haven't found something that really sticks or is straight to the point. I have tried talking to him about this issue at least 3 times that I know of and I feel like I get nowhere with him.
Also, if you know of any books or websites for tween girls to help the girls through the divorce process please share with me. Thank you!
Any help is appreciated.
Edited by MomfromMN, 09 July 2012 - 10:55 PM.