Hot and Cold
Posted 09 May 2012 - 07:47 AM
A few days later he brings it up again, I wanted to be held and you didn't hold me I was so disappointed but I'm over it now. I don't stay mad long.
Can I say lie,lie and another lie.
I am not mad or sad or anything. He was grossing me out. I feel it was growth because when he was trying to make me feel guilty for not doing what he wanted, I acknowledged him but was not apologizing. Lately he has just been trying to be overly affectionate out of the blue.
I think I just want to know if that sounded as strange as I thought it did
Posted 09 May 2012 - 08:02 AM
My ex was really grasping at straws trying to guilt me. He acted very much like an abandoned child.
In fact, the week of our custody hearing, he followed me all over the house like a puppy dog, trying to be funny and coy and teasing me playfully. It was so strange that after a while I found it scary! Eventually I had to tell him to "leave me the *bleep* alone!" Then he acted all wounded and sad. Before long the angry face came back, and he went back to ignoring me.
Hang in there.
Posted 09 May 2012 - 11:01 AM
No matter whether his behavior is abusive or manipulative or childish or not for you I call that progress!
Seeing situations and people as they really are and not as we would want or hope them to be is always good.
Posted 09 May 2012 - 09:34 PM
Posted 10 May 2012 - 06:57 AM
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