DS asked about my M??
Posted 02 May 2012 - 09:13 PM
Posted 02 May 2012 - 09:34 PM
"You seem to be observing some thibgs that I get the feeling bother you, like no trips or dates, is that true?"
:" what made youu think about your dad and me this way?"
"what would it mean to you if we stayed together? How does it feel thginking we might not be togetrher?" What about that worries you?"
Do you think if you do not go to college, you can influence our rwlationship?
"How does that thought make you feel?"
and remind him that his life is his and he has to live it, that he can not control anything but himself, and most of all, that you empathize with him and are sorry that the situation is tough right now and it is ufair on him...
make him understand he is not crazy for seeing what he sees....at the same time the reality that he has two parents at home and things aree tough - but we never know the future, o live happy for today...
hop this helps.
Posted 04 May 2012 - 07:27 AM
I took your advise and addresses as what is the fear and seems he only wanted some assurance that everything would be ok. Seems that he he feared H and I would somehow be alone and lonely if we were not married. I assured him that would not be the case and that we both loved him and would always be his parents no matter what happens.
Posted 04 May 2012 - 08:36 AM
poor kid- he was worried about you---
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