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mespanish

Struggling
Apr 21 2014 06:12 AM
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Formally AngelX3
Jan 13 2014 11:03 PM
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BluButterfly

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change!
Nov 18 2013 01:13 PM
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BluButterfly

Trying to be strong and take care of me... I'm so not used to this!
Nov 05 2013 01:52 PM
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lostallhope

Upset...will his need to control ever stop? Ugggh.
Oct 01 2013 03:30 PM
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Sunshinedelight

sunshinedelight
May 28 2013 12:59 PM
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Phoenix

I've been talking more about things that I didn't think were abusive, but people are telling me that yes, they are. I guess 'normal' isn't 'normal' afterall. I have some learning to do.
Jan 10 2013 07:21 PM
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    Kokoca
    I think there's a bit of frog-in-the-pot syndrome. If you saw the things that are happening to you happen to someone else, what would you think of it?

    Jan 10 2013 09:51 PM
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Phoenix

I've been talking more about things that I didn't think were abusive, but people are telling me that yes, they are. I guess 'normal' isn't 'normal' afterall. I have some learning to do.
Jan 10 2013 07:21 PM
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Kokoca

Has anyone found that, over time, the puzzle pieces all start falling together? I used to think I was the crazy one. That I couldn't have been treated *that* poorly.
Jan 10 2013 10:21 AM
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    Kokoca
    Talked to my D15's volleyball coach yesterday. He had to force my Ex out of her role as a chaperone on the team because she was making the girls on the team uncomfortable! Yikes!
    Jan 10 2013 10:22 AM
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    espresso
    Yikes! Scary and uncomfortable for your daughter and friends, but vindicating and reassuring for you, I imagine.
    Jan 10 2013 01:49 PM
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    espresso
    Even though I'm still "in", I have more and more experiences like the one you're describing. After a while, their insanity makes itself known to others. And thank goodness for that!
    Jan 10 2013 02:48 PM
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Kokoca

Has anyone found that, over time, the puzzle pieces all start falling together? I used to think I was the crazy one. That I couldn't have been treated *that* poorly.
Jan 10 2013 10:21 AM
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Kokoca

Well. we can always chat through status updates. :)
Jan 10 2013 10:20 AM
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Kokoca

Well. we can always chat through status updates. :)
Jan 10 2013 10:20 AM
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Phoenix

I can't get into anything, the last post I can see from anyone is Dec 25
Jan 09 2013 05:57 AM
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Kokoca

Hey, anybody, my Catbox has tipped over and I can't get it going again. Seems like no matter what I click on, I can't see threads, post, or create new threads. Or even messagess to ask for help? Is it just me?
Jan 08 2013 12:48 PM
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    espresso
    Same thing for me! I guess we'll just have to wait and see! Take care all!
    Jan 09 2013 04:08 PM
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    espresso
    Oops! I guess the comment function works after all (; My bad!
    Jan 10 2013 05:59 AM
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    Kokoca
    The irony you can't use the message function either so can't message the admins.

    I went to the main Dr. Irene page and have sent an email from the contact Dr. Irene page.

    Hopefully someone will see it.

    Jan 10 2013 10:14 AM
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Jenna

Tried of relationship with emotional, mental, verbal and physical abuse suffered throughout my marriage!! But, it's all my fault.
Oct 12 2012 08:25 PM
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    youdontdefineme
    If HE is abusing you, how is it your fault? I did this to myself too. He blamed, I blamed me......It was endless until I finally left him after 2 years of his abuse in a varieties! I have an illness and he could have cared less about that . He wouldn't let me sleep or even eat unless I had his permission. All he wanted to do was fight constantly, I just could NOT do it anymore. I am away from him now for 4 months, its difficult but much more peaceful for me. I hope you get out while y...
    Nov 15 2012 09:35 AM
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    weepingsparrow
    Jenna, Please do not take on all the blame!!!! That gives him more power and glee. I felt that way on and off for years. Then I would flip flop and blame everything on him. Its so hard, Its not all your fault. Keeping coming here these ladies have great insights!

    Sep 01 2013 12:55 PM